The first part in "Moving On" is well, coping. People cope differently, and for me, I didnt really use the best coping technique, and im still on part one, so trust me... im going through it too. Coping is difficult, finding ways to keep yourself busy, paint-doodle, do something you love, because if you just sit and mope around all day, those feelings of regret and sadness build up inside. And believe me, its not fun walking around like a zombie.
Life is about exploring new things and meeting new people, yes i know- "you dont wanna meet new people, you want to be with the ones you love" Yes, i got that pegged, but the thing is to not care, and do it anyway. Life is not about thinking about the consequences, that you can do after your dead. Life is about ambition, objectives- and just doing it. (sorry, didnt mean to make it a Nike commercial)
I believe you are only as strong as your heart intends, and if your hearts not into anything new- well, you need to work on it. :) Life is about not knowing whats happening next, and going wherever the wind takes you. And for that, I thank it, because if I had not moved from my previous previous home, i would have never had the chance on meeting all of my closest friends.
Life is about taking risks..... and not regret.
Stay Stong <3
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Introduction
Have you ever thought you could never get over those rough, so heartbreaking-knee shaking, goodbyes? Needless to say, everyone goes through them once in their life.... and for people who dont? Well, let me just say your lying to yourself.
Anyway, let me tell you, its not easy, the rode down that "goodbye path" is not easy to walk, but to look on the bright side... (if there is one) there has to be one person, that is going-or went through the same thing. So, really, if you think about it.. its not really a "bright side" to it all, because the pain you may be feeling, is happening to someone else, but your not alone. Kay, so yeah, that first part was cheesy, and YES it will be all of the cheesy parts that I know of, but this is my blog about how it is to move on, to let go, and to never forget.
Lesson to be learned, here whether its a break-up, moving different locations- or someone passing away, there are ways to get over it, but never forget the fun, happy, moments that you once shared and cherrish them, because if you throw it all away. (Which I tried to do once) but it ended up everyone was upset and that never ends well for anyone. But the fact of the matter is to let go, but to hold on to all of the good memories.
I swear to god, this will get better as the things come along. :)
Anyway, let me tell you, its not easy, the rode down that "goodbye path" is not easy to walk, but to look on the bright side... (if there is one) there has to be one person, that is going-or went through the same thing. So, really, if you think about it.. its not really a "bright side" to it all, because the pain you may be feeling, is happening to someone else, but your not alone. Kay, so yeah, that first part was cheesy, and YES it will be all of the cheesy parts that I know of, but this is my blog about how it is to move on, to let go, and to never forget.
Lesson to be learned, here whether its a break-up, moving different locations- or someone passing away, there are ways to get over it, but never forget the fun, happy, moments that you once shared and cherrish them, because if you throw it all away. (Which I tried to do once) but it ended up everyone was upset and that never ends well for anyone. But the fact of the matter is to let go, but to hold on to all of the good memories.
I swear to god, this will get better as the things come along. :)
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